Diwali

We’re staying at an orphanage in northern India. For me the word orphanage always brings up images of dirty, unkept, unloved, and malnourished children.  A place where children are begging for attention and scraps with caretakers who only give them chores.  The place where Oliver or Annie lived.  Sri Ram Ashram is not such a place.

Sri Ram was started by Baba Hari Das, a guru of Ashtanga yoga, who currently lives near Santa Cruz. As a child he had a friend who was an orphan.  The director of the orphanage was cruel and beat the children.  Baba Hari Das made it his goal to build an orphanage that would be a safe haven and home for the children.  He achieved his goal in his 50’s when the Sri Ram opened in 1984.

It’s an incredible place built in the countryside outside of the town of Haridwar.  Haridwar is a holy city on the Ganges, where the river comes down from the mountains and enters the planes.  The countryside is lush.  There’s a lot of space for the kids on the ashram’s grounds.  They have a playground with swings and a merry-go-round.  There’s a big kid pool and a baby pool.  The kids get three good meals a day in their dining hall.  Milk comes from cows kept on the land.  There is a farm for growing vegetables for the kids.  The boys and girls have separate dorms.  Most children share rooms with two to four in a room.  The little ones have “mommies” who live with them at the orphanage.  As they get older they move into the rooms with the bigger kids.  Many have graduated from the orphanage, some married and some at university.  The kids and the staff are family.   During holidays they come home, home to the ashram.

There is also a clinic here for the kids with a full time nurse on campus.  When one of the kids is ill they know they can find Andrea to help them fell better.  Andrea knows when they need serious medical care and a doctor.  Most of the time they don’t.  Sometimes it’s a bandaid, sometimes some Tylenol, but most of the time it’s a kiss that they need.

It is strict here.  The kids are woken up at 5:30 and get up for morning exercises and prayer service, or arati in Hindi.  After breakfast they go to school across the “street” (a one lane dirt path).  The school was built by the ashram so the kids at Sri Ram would have a place to learn, but it teaches kids from the village and outlying areas as well.  After school they have a bit of playtime, then study hall, arati, and lastly dinner before heading upstairs for bed.  They are required to wash their own dishes and clothes and keep their rooms clean once they move in with the older kids.  The expectations of the kids are high.  They often complain that they have more responsibilities at school because the teachers expect more of the kids from the ashram than of the kids from the village.  They really do work hard.

Except for the week of Diwali.  That’s when we arrived here.  It was like Christmas.  Combined with Fourth of July.  They are out of school for the week, and kids came home for college for their vacation.  The holiday did start with work, however; on Sunday the kids were required to clean their rooms and play spaces.  Monday was more playful as the kids made greeting cards and treats.  In the evening we were all taken by school bus into town for shopping.   The market is energized as this is a destination for many Indians during the holidays.   Colorful streamers wave overhead glowing from strings of lights, and the people elbow each other through the narrow streets holding the bags of newly purchased wares.   aloo tikka in a lotus leaf bowlA benefactor of the orphanage starts the evening every year at her house which is along the market.  We were fed delicious aloo tikka, potato fritters, with tamarind and mint chutneys.  The kids were then given money and sent out into the market to shop. Some got toys, some got treats, and some even got religious icons.  It was a time to satisfy the material urges for the kids who don’t have a lot of possessions.

Tuesday ‘s big activity was building mud huts.  These represented the homes that villagers lived in while their king, Rama, was living in exile.  The kids used brick and mud to build wonderful structures that they then decorated with pictures, flowers, colored dust, strings of lights, and beautiful, small oil lamps known as diyas.  The lamps were lit in the evening to welcome Rama home. But not until after the kids had all showered.  The mud had been used not just to build the huts but also to decorate the kids, their faces, clothes and hair.  After viewing and blessing the huts, our appetite for fire was then whetted with a few loud and streaming colorful fireworks.  Just tempting us for what was to come next.

The next day was the major and most holy of the holidays.  It started by decorating the ashram.  Strings were strung across the courtyard.  Flour was mixed with water which was used to glue tissue paper flags to the string.  With over 60 kids working the banners were constructed in short order and raised overhead crossing the courtyard with waving colors.  It was delightful to see made what we in the States would only consider buying at the party store. The walkway was also decorated with an alpana, a design of greetings and drawings traced with sand and colored sparkles.  Diyas again lined every surface of the courtyard and the surrounding buildings.  When the lamps were lit that night, the place became magical.  This evening’s arati was longer than usual with additional rituals and songs.  Everyone received a red dot or bindi painted onto their forehead by one of the boys.  Another of the boys tied a red string around our wrists.  For most it was placed on the right wrist.  For married women it went on the left wrist.

And then there was dinner.  It was one of the best meals of our trip.  We sat all together, kids, staff, visitors, on the floor with our plates at the ready.  We were served each dish separately by some of the kids.  There was cholle (garbanzo beans), raita (yogurt sauce), aloo gobi (potatoes and cauliflower), papadams (crisped, thin, spicy chips), and puri (fried, yeasted bread).  Like at every Christmas dinner I’ve ever attended, I overate.  I couldn’t help it.  The kids kept coming around offering me more food.  And why would I stop when it was so tasty?   I stopped only because I got tired sitting cross legged on the floor.

The kids from the ashram weren’t as interested in dinner that night.  They knew what was coming next, and they wanted to get on with it.  They were ready for the fireworks, or crackers as they’re called in India.  Each child was first given a bag full of personal fire making toys.  The older the child, the better the stuff.  Of course, there were sparklers and poppers.  The cutest sight of the night were the three to four year olds standing stock still watching their sparklers burn down only the be given a new one to watch, just like chain smokers.  For the older kids there were also screaming sparklers which sang a high pitched note as sparks shot out of the stick and spinners and cones which shot out sparks and balls of colored fire shooting up and out in random directions.  And there were the real fireworks.  The three inch mortars shot out loud booms followed by explosions of light and color spreading out in three dimensions.  Just like the fireworks during our visit to Italy.  But even bigger, and this show wouldn’t stop.  There were more and more, until finally anything left was shot off at once with extra bangs and extra fire.  It’s hard to convey the feeling of fear, excitement and utter exhaustion from a never ending display of fireworks.  Especially during a homespun display.  This wasn’t a professional display.  They don’t do that here.  This is India, after all.  And still no one got burned.

 

 

The next day, Govaradhana, started slowly.  The kids were allowed to sleep in after their night of noise and light.  In the afternoon a pile of cow dung was delivered to the courtyard, and the girls and women started building with it.  A mandala was drawn with the dung.  Small, round rises were constructed every foot or so.  A face was drawn toward one end, an entrance was made toward the other.   

The word “om” was enscribed; effigies of cows eating grass were placed on one side of the mandala.  Tall, stout grass fronds were placed in the rises.  The diyas were placed along the edge. After dark the diyas were lit and a fire was built in the center of the mandala.  We walked around the mandala as a fire burned inside.  Individually, we entered the temple and added powder to the fire.  Then we went to visit the cows.  We went to offer them a gift.  We handed them sweet pakoras which they grabbed in delight with their rough, slimy tongues.   After that it was our turn to eat the pakoras.  But first we washed our hands.

 

The last day of festivities was Bhaiya Dhuj.  It is one of the Indian holidays in which girls treat their brothers.  At the morning prayer the boys sat along the wall.  After the prayers all of the girls lined up to place a bindi on the boys’ foreheads and feed them sweets.  In a more classic family, a boy may have to receive sweets from three or four sisters.  In this family there are about 40 sisters shoving candy and coconut in his mouth.  It started with the littlest sisters; some of them put their whole hand in a brother’s mouth along with the candy before moving onto the next boy.  It was cute to watch.  The boys only felt sick by the end.  Many of them skipped breakfast.  Hank never knew he had so many sisters to feed him so much candy.

Still he was very lucky to start his trip to India with the week of Diwali.  Our whole family was lucky.  What a holiday full of fireworks, cow dung, mud, and shopping,  a delicious dinner and a son stuffed with sweets.  It was full of the flavors of India given to us by an orphanage.   Thank you, Sri Ram!

(Most of my photos were taken by Rashmi Cole, the director of the ashram.  Thanks to you, too, Rashmi.)

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Loving Korogocho

I never thought I’d fall in love with a slum.  When we got to Nairobi I was scared of going out there. I knew it would smell bad, that the sewers would open, and the people would be destitute.  Indeed, all that is true, but still I fell in love and I want to go back.

Korogocho started as a settlement sometime in the 70’s.   All of the land in Korogocho is owned by the government.  The people are merely squatters on this land.  They moved onto the land as they moved into Nairobi for jobs.  Most homes are shanties made of corrugated steel.  They’re tiny and packed in practically on top of each other.  There are some real buildings made of cinderblocks in the slum, some even two or three stories high, built by industrious individuals and owned by slumlords.  There are also homes made of daub and wattle, ie rows of sticks held together with mud.  None are well made.  Almost all of them leak in the rain, have no running water, and have no heat (yes, it gets cold at the equator sometimes).

Korogocho is made up of nine villages with varying degrees of planned development.  Some of the villages have wide roads, the sewers deep ditches along the sides of the roads.  The homes in these parts are made of bricks and often have central “courtyards” with the different homes opening out onto the courtyard.  This adds a bit of privacy and protection.  Other villages are just corrugated steel homes put up slipshod with narrow paths between them.  The sewers here are shallow and cut through the middle of the path.  A communal toilet is often a shack made of a patchwork of steel with a platform placed over this sewer.  During rains the sewer is not deep enough to hold the water as it tries to wind its way down the hill.  If there is no hill, the water just stagnates.  One of the villages is actually built just below the city’s sewage treatment plant, with its open settling ponds and treatment tanks.  Between the village and the treatment plant is a market selling goods and produce.

The sewer adds to the smell, of course.  So does the garbage.  There is a garbage service for some of the villages.  Youth groups collect the trash and charge households about 20 cents a week.  The youth collect the garbage and dump it in the ever increasing piles on the side of the road or really on one side of the road.  Cars and motorbikes need to drive around the garbage pile.  In some villages the trash just carpets the ground.  As the rains soak the garbage the stench of rot fills the air.  There are often children searching through the garbage for goods to resell.  Rarely (some say just before an election) those piles of garbage are moved to the city dump.  The large city dump borders Ngomongo, one of the villages of Korogocho.

So how in the world could I love this place?  It’s certainly not the scenery.  But it is the people.  They are happy and optimistic and willing to share their enthusiasm.   They’re loud, and they’re playful.  I fit right in.  Many are working hard to make their community a better place.  I went there originally to help my boss, Jake Sinclair, with his organization, Ujamaa.  Its mission has evolved from aiding AIDS orphans to aiding a community that is helping its orphans and itself.  Most of the people I met through Ujamaa were from the slums.  These were people who embraced their lives and embraced me as well.  Literally.

Everytime I walked into a room, almost everyone made an effort to come shake my hand.  It wasn’t just a handshake.  Their hand would start out two feet from my own and then make a loud clap as it met mine.  The grasp was always firm and long.  During the handshake I’d be often pulled in for a cheek kissing and a hug.  It was always accompanied by a grin.  I made so many friends, from health workers and guardians of orphans to the teachers of self defense all supported by Ujamaa.  They welcomed me into their group as a lifelong friend.  I have many new numbers in my phone.

I was welcomed into many people’s homes as well.  All the homes had a similar layout.  It started with the doorway without a door, just a sheet or a blanket to keep out the wind and to provide a bit of privacy.  The front room always had at couch (bench with foam cushions) and at least one chair (bench with foam cushions).  The corrugated steel roof let in a little light because of all holes, but the ceiling was softened by a sheet of lace or a modified mosquito net hanging under it.  The back room was the bedroom.  I rarely saw this as it was separated by a sheet from the front room.  In these small homes seven or eight people would often live, sleeping on every surface, cooking over a small charcoal stove on the floor, eating and socializing around the table.  The homes varied in their wealth; some had more space, nicer furniture, and more decorations.  I was an honored guest in all of them.  And like the handshakes the welcome was almost always enthusiastic.

The enthusiasm was carried onto the street as well.  The slum is full of life.  It’s full of people.  It’s full of industry.  There were businesses lining the roads: businesses in buildings, in stalls, and on blankets laid out by the side of the road.  People were selling repaired bicycles, used shoes, axes of all shapes and sizes, and green beans and carrots cut up for an instant meal at home.  There were food stands selling mandazi, chapatis, beans, and greens.  Nothing was expensive.  Delicious bananas were five cents a piece.  Lunch was no more than 50 cents at the stalls; $1.20 at the restaurant was a splurge.  It was bustling.  It was thrilling.

And the children.  Their poverty is disheartening.  But like their parents they were infectious in their enthusiasm.  They always greeted me, loudly yelling, “How are you?”  They often ran up to touch me and shake my hand, smiling and jumping up and down.  Hank and I walked by a group of preschoolers and kindergartners one day during their recess.  They all raced to grab onto our hands.  We had to peel them off when their bell rang to go back into their school.  I was filled with joy and fell in love with Korogocho.

 

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Kenyan Safari

We had a week for safari.  It was the perfect amount of time.  It was wonderful.  We explored the Masai Mara, Lake Nakuru, and the Samburu.  We saw almost everything we were supposed to see, plus some extras. There were, of course, the big five: lions, leopards, rhinos, elephants, and cape buffalo.  As well, we saw zebras, wildebeest, and giraffes.  And birds, birds, birds.  Hornbills, weaverbirds, sunbirds, storks, eagles, hawks, and grey-crowned cranes were just a few.

Our first evening in the Masai Mara we watched a pride of lions.  We watched the cubs play and play and play.  The jumped on each other.  They jumped on their parents.  They jumped on moving blades of grass.  We laughed and laughed.  Over time one of the young adult lions started to irritate the others.  The females around started snarling.  Then snipping.  All of a sudden we heard a massive roar, and a large male with a huge mane came climbing out of the bushes.  He didn’t run, he lumbered.  With only a snarl he chased off the annoying lion and then laid down in the grass as if he had used just enough energy for his job of keeping discipline.

We didn’t see the wildebeest crossing the Mara River, avoiding the jaws of crocodiles, dashing and splashing.  Still we caught a herd as they walked single file down a creek bank.  Dust began floating up from the creek bed as they walked and then suddenly dashed across the small stream.  With dramatic leaps they bounded over the lip of the opposite bank as they reached the top.

Lake Nakuru is famous for large flocks of flamingos (or as Catherine has dubbed them, flaming-o’s).  We saw the lesser and the great flamingos, both pink, of course.  Unfortunately, the drama of millions of flamingos filling a lake had migrated just a week before to another lake.  We did get to see a rock hyrax.  There was a picture in our guidebook of a rock hyrax on the exact same rock above the lake.  We couldn’t find the polka dotted ant Catherine saw crawling around the rocks above the lake.

The lake has been a destination for the endangered white rhino.  The wildlife service has moved several to the national park there.  They’ve been making babies and population is growing.

 

In the Masai Mara we needed an armed guard to explore the river bank where the hippos and crocodiles co-exist.  He taught us about hippo poo.  Their poo (mavi in Kiswahili) is important for marking their territories.  There are piles of half digested grass littering the river bank.  We got to watch a demonstration of how a hippo poops while the beast was still in the river.  As the poo is excreted the hippo waves his tail back and forth across the material spreading it in all directions.  Pooing in the water makes for more drama as the splashing water is mixed in.

We ended our trip at a relatively touristy resort, The Ark, which has viewing platforms and a turret next to a salt lick.  We were treated to milling with the elephants only meters away.  First a large male came toting his huge tusks of ivory.  He used the tusks to dig into the dirt.  He then picked up clods of dirt with his trunk and blew them into his mouth.  He was joined later by a herd of five to six female and juvenile elephants filing onto the delicious dirt single file.  Eventually, after some eating of dirt, playing, and fighting, the small herd left again in single file with the matriarch in the lead.  The large, lone male continued to eat dirt.

Again, thanks to Bill for all the photos.  Hopefully, he’ll post soon at www.whereisbill.net.  Watch for more beautiful pictures.

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Swahili Food

During our three weeks on Lamu we rented two rooms from Majid and his family. We got full board, eating three meals a day with them. Zainab, Majid’s mother, normally lives in Dubai, but luckily she was visiting at the same time we were. She did most of the cooking, and her food was amazing.

Swahili cuisine has been influenced by the Arabs, the Indians, the Europeans (particularly the Portuguese) and, of course, the Africans. A starchy food is always the mainstay of lunch and dinner. There is the African specialty, ugali, a cornmeal cooked into a thick porridge. It tastes like a very bland masa harina unless it’s been cooked with coconut milk and then is slightly sweet. Rice is served often, either steamed or made into a pilau. Wheat flour is made into tortilla-like chapatis. These are often sold by the side of the road for 10 shillings (1 cent).  We would use them as a utensil, picking up our stews or vegetables with them.  And we ate potatoes, often in broth, as well.

Dishes served with the starch included goat stews, fried fish, vegetable stews, and beans. There was one dish of beans I could not get enough of.  The beans were ever so soft and flavored gently with chilies.  Everything was well seasoned but not as heavily as Indian food. Nothing was hot-burning spicy. The stews were accompanied by chutneys: date, dried mango, chili, coconut, or seaweed.

Goat stew one lunch was made from the goat slaughtered in the back yard that morning. Hank had watched the slaughter and couldn’t stomach the stew to follow. Admittedly, there were body parts in it we don’t typically eat in the States. Still by dinner, Hank was once again down with eating goat.  My favorite was a dish of chapatis filled with spiced, chopped goat meat.  It reminded me of the gözleme of Turkey, but with a thicker pancake and different spices in the meat.

For breakfast there were always mandazi, triangles of slightly sweet wheat dough deep fried. As well, John, one of their hired help, went out every morning for fresh fritters of ground beans with spices and herb, much like pakoras.  Occasionally, we had bhajia, lightly battered and fried potatoes.  I have to admit with all the fried food for breakfast, I loved when we added a banana to the meal. To wash everything down we drank milk tea, spiced with cardamom but unsweetened, or black tea with ginger and sweetened with sugar. I always combined the two to have a slightly spicy, slightly sweet, milky cup of tea. It was amazing how much that hot drink would make me sweat in the warmth of the island.

The people of Lamu use their hands to eat. Or more specifically their right hands. The food on the plate is mixed by the right hand and then a small bite is held, pinched between the fingers and the thumb. The thumb is then used as a squeegee pushing the food into the mouth from off the fingers. It is considered impolite to have the food reach beyond the fingers to the palm. Turns out there’s even an etiquette to eating with your hands. My family tried for about a week to eat with our hands. Turns out, we couldn’t do it. There were always utensils for us on the table. Eventually we all broke down and started using forks and spoons. Our hosts asked us if we ever ate with sticks. Why, of course, we exclaimed. They found it amusing we were more willing to make eating more complicated rather than less.  (One of the consequences of eating with their hands is they often have a sink in their dining room.  Makes for an odd decoration in the eyes of us Westerners who use forks and spoons.)

Zainab was incredibly thoughtful of my vegetarian daughter, always making a separate vegetarian dish and often a vegetarian variation of the main dish for Cat.  She would even cook the vegetarian dish before the meat dish so that no meat would contaminate my daughter’s food.  Few cooks are so thoughtful.  When Cat got sick and unable to eat, we could see that Zainab was a bit hurt by Cat’s refusal to eat.   When Cat likes her food, she’s so much fun to feed.  She relishes her food.  Zainab smiled from ear to ear when Cat was better and once again starting eating and complimenting the food.

One of our last meals in Lamu was one of Zainab’s finests.  We had guests, eight in all, plus Zainab, Majid, and Thuweba, Sundus and Said, their kids, and the four of us.  There wasn’t room at the table for all of us, so we sat on the floor with a long table cloth to define the table.  There was goat stew with potatoes and chilies, rice pilau, bhajia, mandazi, greens, and my favorite pot of beans.  Of course, there was milk and black teas to drink.  And so much talk, in English, Swahili, and, yes, once again some German.  After the meal we all sang old rock and roll songs to a guitar.  The delicious foods of the Swahili cuisine had warmed our bellies, our voices, and our hearts.  We were very fortunate to have Zainab introduce us to the Swahili cuisine.  We were very fortunate to have her family to introduce us to Swahili culture.  Thank you, Zainab, Majid, and Thuweba for all your hospitality.

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Lamu Center of Preventative Health

Munib Mafazy grew up on Lamu.  He went to Chicago to become a nurse and is now a PhD candidate there.  When he came home to visit he received a lot of visitors, not just wishing him well but wishing for their own wellness.  He took blood pressures and checked blood sugars.  He wrote prescriptions for all the medications needed to treat these patients, and then when he left, his brother, Majid, continued to take blood pressures and blood sugars of family members, sent the results to Munib who then sent back prescriptions.  With this experience the family realized there was a need for better access to preventive health care in Lamu.  Majid moved his workshop out of the first floor of the family’s house near the center of Lamu Town.  With new walls, new flooring and new paint the workshop became a clinic.  It opened its doors just a month or two before I came.

At about the same time as I came to Lamu, Aziza started working at the clinic.  As a clinical officer her roles are much like a nurse practitioner in the US.  She has worked in other clinics performing all services of general practice; she has treated chronic illnesses, delivered babies, and diagnosed surgical problems.  She grew up in Lamu and knows everyone and their circumstances.   My goal was to teach her anything I knew about taking care of kids with a focus on asthma.

The first day at the clinic was busy.  The Town Crier had gone around town with his megaphone a few days before I came.  He announced that an “asthma specialist” was coming to the clinic.  I tried to dispel that myth but quickly realized it just didn’t matter.  My limited knowledge was still going to be helpful to Aziza.   Aziza helped with my limited Swahili.

I started out seeing all the patients myself with Aziza interpreting.  Soon I realized I needed to learn from her.  I taught her about asthma; she taught me about malaria, intestinal infections, and jiggers.  After a few days, I knew the patients would be better served by Aziza making the diagnoses and treatment plans.  I acted as merely a consultant.

Much of the asthma we saw was bad.  There are a lot of triggers in Lamu for asthma.  Dust is everywhere.  The kids kick it up playing football; the donkeys kick it up hauling bricks.  It’s impossible to avoid.  Even worse than the dust is the smoke.  Most people cook over charcoal or firewood, often with poor ventilation.  Many of the men smoke cigarettes only adding more smoke to the environment of the island.  And then there’s the trash burning.  It seemed I could smell burning plastic everywhere.  Even my healthy chest started to feel tight.

With all these triggers many of the patients needed albuterol every day.  Some of the adults were still using oral albuterol.  It can’t be good having that medicine course through one’s body, only a fraction getting to its target, the lungs.  It has so many side effects including speeding up the heart rate. Having it work on an adult’s crummy heart in such doses can only lead to bad things.  These people needed a better delivery system.

When I was in Istanbul I had purchased a nebulizer from a pharmacist.  The guy was great.  He was excited to help me take something good to Africa.  He even gave me a discount.  I only wish I had taken his card so that I could send him a picture of one of the many patients to whom it brought relief.

Still the nebulizer could only relieve the symptoms while the patient was in the clinic.  So Aziza and I taught patients how to use an inhaler.  We also began inhaled steroids on numerous patients.  This required a visit to the local chemist (pharmacist).  What was available?  Turns out all sorts of things at various and seemingly random prices.  Prices were set by where the medicine was made.  Indian medicines were half the price of European and American.

Prices became the determining factor in what we prescribed.  There are inhalers of steroids only, but they cost twice as much as the combination of short acting beta agonist (albuterol) and steroid.  Aziza and I started prescribing the latter for most of the patients.  Here was the “preventative” part of Lamu Center of Preventative Health.  With this medication we could help reduce the inflammation in their lungs and thereby reduce the frequency of their attacks.  The cost of the daily medicine should be offset by a significant reduction in hospital visits.   As the lungs improve the patients will hopefully be able to reduce the amount of medication they use, and therefore, reduce their expense.

I  saw more than asthma, of course.  Patients arrived with a multitude of problems that had nothing to do with their lungs.  The various and sundry complaints many of the adults brought with them reminded me why I’m a pediatrician.  In addition to my limited knowledge, my limited resources at the clinic kept me from treating all of the problems I encountered.  Still I felt I reached my goals in Lamu.  Aziza was creating treatment plans and teaching her patients how to control their asthma in their own language.   I’m keeping in contact with her, as a consultant and a friend.

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9 Reasons to Visit Turkey

1. Beautiful views:  From the blue, salty Mediterranean to the fairy chimneys of Cappadocia to the ancient buildings of Istanbul, Turkey is full of amazing scenery.

2.  Delicious food:  I think I’ve already blogged about this.  Our last night eating a simple Turkish meal of lentil soup, eggplant and yogurt dips, and baklava surprised us.  It was as satisfying as our first meal in Turkey.

3.  Clean:   In Kaş the garbage was picked up every day.  The sidewalks were washed down every day.  There was no trash littering the streets.  It was just plain clean.  In Istanbul the garbage was picked up three times a day.  It was just never stinky (except on the bus).

4.  Safe: Our kids stayed out after midnight by themselves roaming the streets of Kaş.  We didn’t worry.  An American ex-pat told us a story of visiting a family in Ankara.  Everyone was gathered around the TV to listen to the news of a crime.  She thought it must be something horrible, something violent.  It was news of a pick-pocket.

5. History: More people have come to invade and conquer Turkey than probably any other region in the world.  It’s strategically important as the passage between Asia and Europe and Africa and Asia.  The Hittites, the Trojans, the Greeks including Alexander the Great, the Romans, the Persians, the Lycians, Christian Byzantines, and Muslim Ottomans have all maintained empires in Turkey.

6. Beautiful people: With the rich history of all those different invaders and conquerers the people have enriched their genes.  The most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen are in Turkey.  There’s a color I hadn’t seen before, somewhere between green, grey, and brown.  I found myself staring at people frequently trying to meet their eyes.

7. Friendly people:  We were never lost without someone coming to our aid.  Sometimes the help was in German, but that worked for us.

8.  Adventure: We sailed the blue Mediterranean for four nights.  The kids parasailed.  Bill and Hank learned to scuba dive.  We explored ancient Greek and Roman ruins.  We ballooned over Cappadocia at sunrise.

9.  The bus system: Easy, efficient and cheap.  It got us around the country.  We did have to take a couple of overnight trips and got dropped off at our stop at 4am once.   They provided an adventure in culture.

Granted we were tired of the rug sellers pushing their wares and the restauranteur asking if we wanted to see their menu identical to the menu at the restaurant next door.  We even got tired of the food after five weeks.  Hank and I spent an evening laughing about all the things we could no longer bear toward the end of our visit.  But I’d go back.  Maybe even stay longer next time.

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Swahili Wedding

Our hosts here in Kenya were excited when they were able to obtain tickets for us for the two nights of a Swahili wedding.  We were excited, too, but had no idea what would happen.  This was nothing like an American celebration.  Hank and Bill were not invited to the woman only party.  I had to buy a couple of dresses to fit in, dresses with lots of sparkles and ribbons, things I wouldn’t have worn at home.  Catherine was loaned some dresses that fit her perfectly.  We discovered when we got to the wedding dressing up was de rigeur.

The wedding was in the courtyard of the old fort here on Lamu.  Unfortunately, as outsiders we weren’t allowed to take pictures so I’ll try to paint the scene with my words.  A man guarded the front door taking the tickets as we entered.  He was the last man we saw for the next couple of hours each night.   We were greeted with incense wafting to our faces and rose water sprayed on our hands.  We were given a small plastic bag of food, one night meatballs and some gelled dessert, then next night cookies and soda.  One of the first times on the trip we decided to forego eating.

On the first night as we entered the courtyard arabic pop was blaring from the speakers.  As more women came in they sat down in an ever increasing semicircle in front of a stage.  Satin cloth of varying of white, gold and green was draped on the wall behind.  Some of the women danced.  They danced with partners swaying their hips and arms while walking forward and backwards at times turning around each other always smiling.  There were people finding friends and talking.  Finally, after a couple of hours everyone sat down.  An aisle was formed as women squeezed closer to each other to allow the bride to come in.   Her dress was green with crinoline beneath the skirt so that it stuck out two feet on all sides.  Sequins glittered on every surface of the cloth.   She waddled forward through the crowd.  It was an odd walk.  It looked as if the skirt was getting trapped beneath her feet, yet when she got up on stage she continued this back and forth swaying as if it was the traditional way for a the bride to walk the aisle.  Once she was on the stage all the women in the courtyard got up to take pictures and the party was over.  The bride was left on the stage posing for photos while we headed for the door.

The next night the party started again.  The women were again seated on the floor in front of the stage.  But this night there was a singer, a woman who had entered veiled was now in front facing the party singing Islamic songs in a high pitched nasal voice.  Girls sat around her beating drums and tamborines and singing along.  Women began bringing money up to the front, some they tucked into the singer’s scarf for her pay, some they threw to friends of the bride’s mother.  This money was folded into belts, crowns, sashes all to accessorize the bride’s mother.  As the night wore on the singing was more feverish and more penetrating.  As the excitement grew women began with ululations, also high pitched and feverish.  Finally the singing stopped, the crowd parted, and the bride entered.  On this second night of her wedding she wore a cream colored gown, again decorated with sequins and crinoline.   Again she waddled slowing as she approached the stage, turning a couple of times so the crowd could admire her beauty.  She climbed up the stairs to the stage.  And again this was the cue for everyone to get ready to leave.

Throughout the event women in black veils encircled the courtyard.  They only watched from the perimeter, never joining in.  According to our friend, Thuweba, some were probably unwed, some were probably just unwilling to show what poor clothes they wore underneath.  They gave me the sense of ghosts silently watching the festivities.  Yet it was one of these women on the second, more religious night who helped Catherine fix her scarf as it continued to fall off her head.  It was a tender, woman-to-woman gesture that meant the most to me during these two nights celebrating a rite of womanhood.

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Ramazan

We spent the entire month of Ramadan in Turkey. The Turks call the holy month Ramazan. We did not visit the more conservative areas of Turkey so beyond some foods unique to Ramazan we didn’t really notice the holiday. None of our friends were fasting, and they joined us at the table throughout the day. The guidebooks had warned us we should eat indoors before sunset, but we were always invited to sit outdoors at the restaurants.

Istanbul was a bit different, however. The restaurants still served outside during the day, and plenty of Turks joined us in eating and drinking. But close to sunset things changed at these tables. We were no longer invited to sit outdoors. The long tables were reserved for those who were fasting. As sunset approached the tables were set with dates, olives, salad, and pide bread. People sat down in front of the food and talked quietly waiting to eat. As soon as the evening call to prayer was sung (and it was the shortest of all the days prayers) the fast would be broken. There was a made rush toward the food. The sound of forks, spoons, and laughter filled the air. The restaurants would bring out piles of soup bowls filled with lentil soup, then plates of stews. Around the Blue Mosque, as well, families were digging into their picnics. There was a buzz to the Ramazan iftar.

Istanbul also celebrated Ramazan with a carnival. The Hippodrome where the horses used to run was lined with stalls selling crafts, food, and sweets. We sampled the lollipops of caramel swirled around wooden sticks as well as pickled cabbage and cucumbers served with a straw in their hot pink pickle juice. We ate the Turkish delight (lokum) and hard candies offered up on plates at stalls.

We first visited the carnival on the last Saturday of Ramazan. We couldn’t move through the crowd. We went back to sample the lollipops on the last day of Ramazan as well. The crowds had left. This was the beginning of one of their biggest holidays. In Turkey the three days after Ramazan are called Şeker Bayrami or sugar holiday. Everyone had gone home to celebrate with family. Istanbul got very quiet over the next few days with all the shops closed and no one rushing off to work. But the parks filled up with families eating the food purchased from all the many carts outdoors in the sunshine. People now were not just celebrating the end of a day of fasting but the end of an arduous yet holy month.  It was a great way to celebrate our last days in Turkey.

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Lycia

I’ve been reading Classic Myths to Read Aloud by William F Russell to the kids.  We were intrigued when we read the story of Bellerophon while we were in southwestern Turkey. Bellerophon freed the world of the Chimera, that horrible fire breathing beast, part goat, part lion, part serpent. For the task Bellerophon rode Pegasus. Later, in attempt to fly up to Olympus, he again rode Pegasus but was struck down from the horse by one of Zeus’ lightening bolts. After Bellerophon’s fall Pegasus continued to fly up into the heavens and became a constellation.  All of this story occurred in the kingdom of Lycia.

Honestly, I didn’t know there had been a kingdom of Lycia until we got to Turkey. It was thousands of years ago in southwestern Turkey. The Lycians had a written language much like Greek but with a few extra characters. They worshiped the same gods and goddesses as the Greeks, but they sided with Troy during the Trojan war. Bellerophon was part of this Lycian contingent to Troy. Later the Lycians were overtaken by Alexander the Great, were subjugated by the Roman empire, and their cities overbuilt by Byzantines and then Ottomans. They had a multitiude of cities including Xanthos, Letoon, Kekova, Patara, and Tlos.

Like the Greeks the Lycians had a representative government, and the first senate building in the world is in Patara. The senate building is currently under reconstruction. The rumor is that when rebuilt the UN will hold a conference there. Within the ruins of Patara the market place, main road, and theater remain in addition to the senate building.  Multiple blocks with Lycian writing remain in the ruins. Patara was a seaport.  Eventually, the port filled in with marsh, and the inhabitants died off from the malaria that followed. The remaining town is a couple of kilometers inland but is visited now as much for the 11 km long sandy beach as for the ruins.

Up into the mountains from Patara is Tlos. This was a city known for excesses. There, too, was a theater built during the Roman era of Lycia. This summer archeologists from Istanbul have been excavating the theater. The stage building was freed of a multitude of large limestone blocks that had fallen from the theater’s walls. Several large statues of various rulers were discovered. Unfortunately, the statues had been moved to the museum in Fethiye the morning before we visited. Still we were able to explore the grounds of the excavation. Our guide, Altay, is friends with the archeologists, and we were allowed to sneak past the cordon and sit inside the excavation. Altay discussed how the archeologists went about their work, waking up early in the morning to dig, then moving inside in the heat of the afternoon to carefully document and catalogue the day’s finds.  He described how the theater would have been used, for art, politics and spectator sports.  He discussed the architecture of theaters in ancient times, how the hillsides were used to support the structure, how the building allowed view of the stage as well as the town and valley below, and how the stone seats were carved out to allow the sound from the stage to travel more evenly throughout the theater. We were able to imagine the sights and sounds of an ancient play.

Tlos has ruins of two separate Roman baths.  There’s so much water coming down from the mountains in this area it was the perfect place for baths.  The baths provided a meeting place for all the members of society.  According to Altay, even slaves were provided the opportunity to bathe.  In addition to the theater, and the baths, ruins of the arena and market place are still visible.  Additionally, the only temple to Cronos, father of Zeus, is in Tlos.   On top of the Roman era ruins the Christians built their city. They used reclaimed blocks of limestone adding stones on top as needed. Some of the reclaimed blocks were inscribed in Greek or Lycian but the inscription was not important.  They were placed upside or sideways whichever way fit best in the new construction.

Our real goal in Tlos was to explore the Tomb of Bellerophon. The Lycians left many tombs carved into the hillsides of the region. Tlos was no exception. This tomb was special for us as it had a relief of Bellerophon riding Pegasus on the wall of the entrance.  The tomb was not easy to get to as it was built on a steep hillside.  We scrambled down a narrow path and climbed up a wooden ladder nailed into the rock wall to reach. In addition to Bellerophon and Pegasus there were reliefs of lions and dogs guarding the tomb. Altay pointed out the relief of lions over the tomb he had exposed by pulling away brush earlier this summer. He was still quite excited by his discovery.

At the end of our day we climbed the hill to reach the top of an Ottoman fort.  We walked up an road that had been built by the Ottomans as well.  We knew there must be layers of Byzantine, Roman, and Lycian artifacts underneath.  When we reached the top of the fort we watched as the sun set over a beautiful valley and the mountains behind us turned pink in the evening light.  The ruins of the town of Tlos glowed as well.  The stars began to come out. We still haven’t figured out which ones make up Pegasus.

 

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Nazik, Adalet, and Turkish Hospitality

Our friend Yusuf ‘s mother, Adalet, lives in Kaş in southern Turkey. We spent three weeks with her.  Adalet lives in the main house in the winter. In the summer she moves into a cabin in the back; her guests stay in the front with a view out over the sea, a Greek island only kilometers away.

Adalet has four children all of whom she taught to cook.  Yusuf lives in the Oakland and works as a chef at Ruth Chris’ Steakhouse in San Francisco.  His cooking is part of what inspired us to visit Turkey.  He is one of my favorite chefs.   Mürena owns a cafe, Dennis Cafe, in Kaş.  We ate many delicious meals of classic Turkish fare there.  Rıza works as a chef in one of the restaurants overlooking the sea in Kaş.  There we enjoyed a meal of seafood, steak, and pasta listening to the waves roll in below our deck.  Adalet’s fourth child Nazik does not work in a restaurant.  But she cooks.  In the summer she lives in the back of her house with her mother and takes care of the house and the guests.  It was her food we ate the most of.  She took good care of us.

Our first morning in Kaş the whole family gathered on the front porch for breakfast. Aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, cousins were all ready to share a traditional Turkish breakfast with their American guests.  There was an assortment of fresh breads: a loaf of crusty white bread, some soft rolls filled with herbs, some with their crusts strewn with sesame seeds.  There was a hard salty cheese similar to feta and a softer yellow cheese.  Potatoes with hard boiled eggs strewn with herbs.  Tomatoes, cucumber, green peppers, and olives. Fresh peaches and grapes. Homemade strawberry jam with whole fruit and apricot marmalade with roasted almonds mixed in. A pot of stewed zucchini with onions and tomatoes. And lots of tea. It was one of my favorite breakfasts of all time.

Often in the morning I sat on the porch watching the light change on the sea and on the island as the sun moves across the sky. Occasionally, when the sun was reaching its high point in the sky Nazik came out on the porch bringing Turkish coffees and cookies to share. We sat together mostly silently as neither of us speak the other’s language. We watched as the boats come in and out of the harbor and as the light changed on the sea and island. She was waiting for her husband, Ahmet, to return from his morning as the captain of a dive boat.  I was waiting for Bill and Hank to return from diving.

In the afternoon, after Ahmet again returned from his afternoon adventure on the sea, it was teatime. In Turkish tea is called çay (pronounced chai like in India). The black tea is prepared in a kettle, boiled for 15 minutes then steeped for at least another 5 minutes. It is poured strong from the kettle, but only half a glass is served. The tea kettle rests on another kettle of hot water, and the hot water is used to dilute the çay to taste.We drank the çay from traditional tulip shaped glasses, no handle, but rather a coaster underneath to hold the steaming hot glass.

Kaş is full of restaurants, and we were surrounded by them.  We counted at least nine on our little block. We eat at many, however. Still we took advantage of their proximity. When there was food to be grilled Nazik would hand the chicken or fish to one of the chefs near by. He’d grill the meat over the coals, and we got perfectly cooked meat, peppers, and tomatoes. forgot to take a picture of our fishOne evening Nazik asked the restaurant next door grill the sea bass we had bought in town with her husband.  With the fish came a chopped salad of lettuce, green onions, and arugula dressed with oil and lemon juice. Fresh vegetables including slices of red onion and shredded carrots were on the table to eat with the fish. There was so much food that night we couldn’t even get to the plate of sauteed vegetables topped with yogurt.

During lunch or dinner Nazik will often add to our table green beans, okra, even grilled chicken. One day a steaming tray of börek came to be shared at lunch. The dough was crispy and buttery on the outside, soft and chewy on the inside. Some were filled with meat, some with cheese, both flavored with green onions, parsley, and dill. Yogurt, red pepper oil, and mint topped the börek.  Beans and pickles accompanied the dish.  The day we left Nazik taught me how to make the börek.  I cherished this time together.

One afternoon at tea, lentil balls were on the table. We wrapped the soft, spiced lentils in lettuce with mint, lemon, and pomegranate syrup. We were hungry. We couldn’t stop eating. Dinner’s bread (a special flat bread orpide for Ramadan) was handed over the fence from the restaurant next door. We soon devoured the loaf. Seeing we were hungry, Nazik added green beans stewed with tomatoes to the table. Tea time became dinner for us as our hosts, smiling, watched us fill our bellies.

For Hank’s 14th birthday, Nazik baked a huge chocolate cake with whole sour cherries inside. It requires a little care to eat as the pits are still in the cherries. Still there is no stopping my family from relishing the gift. Nazik had also baked soft rolls filled with salty white cheese, parsley, and dill.  Of course, many glasses of çay were served with the cake.

At all times there is watermelon in the refrigerator, ice cold. At the beginning of our stay I bought a watermelon that was so mushy I had to throw it away.  Nazik found out.  After that I was provided with firm, sweet, juicy melons delivered to the door. Nazik brought over her juicer. She taught Cat how to juice the watermelon. Cat began juicing watermelon, peaches, grapes, whatever fruit she finds. She made orange juice using the orange press for the most perfect juice, sweet and tart, never bitter, never bland.

One Friday morning Nazik took us to the weekly market. Stalls were filled with fresh fruits, vegetables, spices, nuts. We ate breakfast there. Gözleme (lavash like pancakes) filled with cheese, parsley and onion as well as flat breads filled with cheese were heated on a large grill then cut up to share. Nazik knew everyone at the market.  She was given tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers, and chilis which she cut up at the juice maker’s table and served with our breads. Large glasses of fresh squeezed orange juice quenched our thirst. A breakfast that surely beats oatmeal.

We have been eating like pigs here. Funny in a land without pork. But the food is so fresh and delicious, mostly vegetables and fruits. I’ve actually lost weight. Sitting on the porch watching the light change with new Turkish friends. This is the diet I love.

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